Jeff Lawrence

Where are you Christmas? – 5 ways to rediscover the wonder

I love the movies of Christmas.  From It’s a Wonderful Life to A Christmas Story to Miracle on 34th Street, the movies tend to warm my heart and rekindle a wonder-like sense that Christmas is something more.  Almost as if there’s something we forget the rest of the year, only to be reminded now.

The culture of this season has become marked by long meetings, long rehearsals, tons of music, office parties, team parties, white elephants and elves on shelves.  And the food comes in waves of homemade fudge, cookies, cake, cheese dip, sausage balls, and all things yum…only to leave a real gift of a perpetual blah and physical yuck.

Then there’s the hunt!  Recently mine has centered on the Amazon (.com) where the forest is thick and the rivers deep with dangerous dollar signs along the journey of giving to those who already have everything.

But don’t get me wrong – the fun factor is high.  When the music comes to life, the parties launch and the kid’s concerts bring a sense of pride and accomplishment…life is good!

Yet, in true honesty – that song from The Grinch: “Where are you Christmas” is the unsung anthem of the season.  More and more I’m hearing a desire, if not desperation to find a way back to a simple season of hope, family and deep abiding faith.

If you’re looking for a path of practical steps, then allow me to share 5 steps to rediscovering the wonder of Christmas:

“And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” Joshua 24:15

  •  It’s a Choice!  The hardest part of every journey is making the choice.  It’s a hard decision that has broad implications.  For most, it’s easier not to choose and just follow the crowd.  We do it because they do it and it’s what we all do.  Yet the one who stands up and says “I’m tired of living this way and I’m going to do something about it” is ready to make a decision based on a choice.  One thing is true – Jesus made people choose.  If you want to change things…then remember you have a choice.

“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal.  For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” – Matthew 6:19-21

  •  Invest Wisely!  Just as you make decisions regarding your financial investments – the investment of your time, energy and passion is exponentially more crucial.  What you do, what you read, what you watch is what you become.  And as you invest your time, ask yourself this valuable question: “what Biblical Kingdom impact or return am I getting for my investment?”  Are you giving or taking, consuming or providing?  Are you giving the gift of kindness and generosity?  What are you modeling for your children or grandchildren?

We spend countless hours investing in our kids’ artistic or athletic prowess only to create the next generation of the spiritually apathetic.  We live in our cars and minivans and invest in the here and now.  Then we’re surprised when the investment yields a bumper crop of marginal fruit in the teenage and college years.

Choose now to invest in the things that money can’t buy and time won’t change.  Then you’ll make waves of eternal significance.

“Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise you have no reward from your Father in heaven. Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward.  But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, that your charitable deed may be in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly.– Matthew 6:1-4

  •  Do it in secret!  Take the challenge of writing the note, paying the bill, raking the leaves, fixing the stairs…in secret.  Do something that no one else can see and no one else knows.  When you see a need, meet a need.  Don’t wait on someone else to do it.  And then – tell no one.

Why?  Because there is no greater check of our ego and motivation than to do something knowing there is no reward, no hoopla, no applause.  When you try it and test God’s Word – you will find the spark ignited in your spirit will bring a real sense of Christmas warmth like nothing else.  And by the way, let your kids in on the secret.  They’ll transform right before your eyes.

“…As we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.”  2 Corinthians 4:18

  •  See the unseen!  Christmas is a season that boasts the virtues of things that are not visible.  It’s a time when we wait for Santa to arrive in the night…undetected.  It’s a parental exercise in stealth maneuvers hoping not to get caught.  It’s the ringing bell from The Polar Express as we ask our kids…and ourselves “do you believe”?

And reality is…there’s something to that.  There exists a world beyond what we can see and a deeper truth that tells us that all the trappings of Christmas found in the wrappings and boxes are temporary.  Last year’s Christmas presents are now in the good will pile as we anxiously await this year’s next best thing.

Enjoy the gift, play with the latest electronic…but never let it dethrone the true King.  See the stuff for what it is and keep it in it’s proper place.

“He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Many will see and fear, and put their trust in the Lord.” – Psalm 40:3

  •  Worship!  Choose to drink deeply from the cup of thankfulness for the “way out there, beyond all measure, blow me away” kind of love that God has for you.  Worship through reading God’s Word.  Worship on your knees in a secret place…with tears streaming down your face for a baby born a King to make a way for you to find your way home.

When you sing – sing out loud…boldly!  Sing those Christmas carols with a conviction not based on the churchy/traditional/this is what we do kind of thinking.  But instead from a heart that has found a new song.

Then guess what – “many will see and fear, and put their trust in the Lord”.  In a season when everyone is doing the same old thing…bring a fresh wind of joy to your family, your office, your school and your church.  If we’re going to truly find Christmas – then you be the one to bring it!

So…where are you Christmas?  The journey begins today, as a choice to not accept the shallow shadow of the real Christmas.  Make the decision, invest wisely and do something without being recognized.  Look below the surface for the unseen and worship boldly.  Then and only then you might just find Christmas has found it’s way back home again.

Merry Christmas!




4 Responses

  1. Really enjoyed this tonight, Jeff. Lots of good stuff to remember during this season and throughout the year!! Thanks!

  2. Thanks you for the reminders!! It is too easy to get caught up in the “commercial” aspects and place a lesser importance on the true meaning of Christmas—JESUS! I love your gentle yet needed reminder. Thank you.

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